Transit Venus square transit Pluto Nov 20 2015

I just wanted to let you know that relationship dynamics are headed into some turbulent territory next couple days, starting from now, and real strong by tomorrow evening into the weekend then reignites closer to the upcoming full moon next week. But for now, passions flare. Venus is making a 3rd Quarter Square aspect to Pluto Friday evening in play now thru the weekend; a phase in a cycle of balancing power, control & authority within key relationships, transforming and maturing together in the process which the current cycle started back on Dec 20 2014, and is now coming back around, finalizing facing one last challenge of the cycle before new areas of transformation and growth can occur. This usually plays out one to one, for any relationship that is really important - family, business, romantic, etc. - important partnership .

Strong power plays could be on the way. One or both of you could be feeling some intensity that could stir up an argument by tomorrow evening. Feelings of jealously, possessiveness, wanting to control and lots of manipulation is very likely, especially if current circumstances like obligations or social type stuff with others help agitate the under-currents already being felt. If issues with the other doesn't manifest by this weekend, it will still be bubbling under the surface the entire time. Awareness will keep you out of trouble, to a degree. One person might be passive aggressive, agitated, unhappy, etc trying to get the other to know that something is wrong by acting insecure. They might not feel like they can communicate it, so act passive. They might feel powerless and feel the other has too much control. This could initiate an argument so that all this energy over the last year of 2015 (in context of power/control issues) can be released, until starting a new cycle, upgraded, moving forward with maturity in new ways, if they can make it past this 3rd quarter challenge. It all comes down to fears and insecurities, fearing the loss of something they love and or value/desire, like the other person. Trust is a big thing with this. If the partner is not doing anything to jeopardize the respect/relationship and the other still acts out in jealously, suspicion, control, fear, etc then this is the issue of that person, and they are projecting their fear of loss. Or maybe one partner needs to check their behavior. Are they acting in a way that their subconscious knows will cause an argument with their partner, acting inappropriate, so they themselves can get out of the mess, passively? This is the kind of stuff i'm talking about. Stuff that can't be said, too afraid to say or admit the feelings of fear that could come up. Being honest is best, sharing feelings, even if hard ones. Rather than reacting to one person in fear the other person could be compassionate and understanding, knowing why, But this alignment makes that a challenge, to stay balanced when passions flare, with jealously and control. This energy kind of sets people up to fall in trap, so all this unspoken energy of the power and control dynamic can be released.

Things do get better after this minor setback, if indeed it manifests for you. It might not but you still might have to deal with tough feelings. Or you could have to face loss of something you want. Not feeling valued enough perhaps. stuff like that. Acceptance, trust, letting go and knowing that holding on so tight is where the suffering comes from. The energy will be sensitive but then Mercury and the sun move into Sagittarius uplifting the energy to a higher degree of faith and trust. However, Saturn is square to Neptune so confusion and doubts about what we know to be true, beliefs, opinions etc are in question, for everyone; being asked to get more real and honest, with self first. Reality check.

Alright, now you know, you can work with it...
Thanks for reading.
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